Saturday, August 13, 2011

“Friends”

Warning: Vent Session

Lately I have realized that I have less and less in common with my current friends. I don’t know if it’s because I’m married now, have a full time job, or what. But things are starting to become really apparent.

I love friends that want to spend time with me. I am tired of these every-once-in-a-while hangouts where we talk for a couple of hours and then part ways for months on end. I need more than that out of my friendships.

Call me high maintenance, but I would love to have friendships that have weekly hangouts and/or phone calls. Lately I have realized how little my friends care about my every day life. I mean, if I really needed them, they would all be there. But, if I didn’t really need them, they wouldn’t come.

It has really put things into perspective and I have decided that I will be trying to find new friends. I will still keep the old ones, but I need people who actually want to do things besides sit around the house or going out late on week nights. I need some grown-up friends.

4 comments:

  1. A friend of mine texted me at one point when I told her that I couldn't meet up with her because I had to get home to Cory and she completely blasted me about how she was tired of her friends in serious relationships blowing her off and how we're too busy for her and how she was in our lives first. It completely caught me off guard. I guess it's hard to juggle but I feel the same exact way. I have tried the whole meeting new friends thing but don't even know where to start.

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  2. Yeah me neither. I know what I want to find more friends but have no clue where to start. Glad to know at least I'm not alone. :)

    By the way, I just read all of the comments you left. Apparently when I said in my settings that I wanted emails when someone commented, blogger took that as a mere suggestion. Therefore, I don't get emails.

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  3. maybe you should talk to your friends instead of venting everywhere on the internet

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  4. I would if they were available to talk to. :-/

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